If I had to pick one event in my life which significantly altered it, I would have to pick moving to the United States from Hong Kong in the winter of 1998. Not only did my immediate circumstances change with this move- the house I lived in was now in a suburb instead of a gated community, the Chicago climate was harsh and freezing, my new school was very large and unfamiliar- but also, my entire perception of the world shifted as a result of this move. Although my parents, and I, have always been American citizens, because I was born and also lived in Singapore, I had never lived before in the states. In retrospect, my life overseas was greatly different, but armed me with a more open-minde and global perspective that I sometimes believe more Americans should have. I have not been back to Asia since I have left, and I think this is another reason this move felt so monumental, as living overseas becomes to me, sadly, more and more of a distant and entirely seperate memory from my life here.
My Big, Life-Changing Event Thursday, Jan 17 2008
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January 17, 2008 at 8:24 pm
If I had to pick one event that I consider to be life changing, I would pick the day I chose to go to University of Richmond instead of becoming a professional ballet dancer. The life of a college student and the life of a ballet dancer are polar opposites, and to this day I still try to adjust to being “a normal person.” Since I went to a performing arts high school, I always thought that ballet was what I would pursue as a career, even though I knew that I’d always go to college. After auditioning for several ballet companies and getting offers for contracts but deciding to go to college, I feel like my life path has become less narrow because there are automatically more possibilities in my life. No longer do I have to spend eight hours a day in a ballet studio or work on a variation until 11 o’clock at night. I’ve been able to pursue other interests that I literally never knew I had because ballet is such a consuming art form. Further, I feel less judgmental of myself and truly feel a sense of liberation (as cheesy and corny as that sounds). The skills ballet gave me were not only physical but mental and ethical as well; I will always carry these skills with me, and I will always have a passion for ballet, but I realize now that being a professional dancer would not have made me as happy as I am now.
January 18, 2008 at 4:35 am
Very nice posts, both of you!